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A huge part of Ascension is working on the male/female balance within. This balance, along with other work, must be completed before union can take place. While going through the reconnection, there will be much inner work accomplished. It takes trust, faith and a strong determination to become One again.

Now, one might ask why all this when we are supposedly androgynous beings. The term ''androgynous'' applies to the balance of the male/female within, and eventually of the complete balance with your Twin Ray, where one is a complete extension of the other and vice versa. Creation is always a blending of energies on many levels. It is also time we slowly begin to fuse into the Earth's consciousness the Story of Man and Woman. One cannot be without the other; it simply is not done.

The Seven-Step Earth Pyramid of male/female relationships is as follows:

A.) Twin Ray B.) Twin Flames C.) Twin Souls D.) Twin Mates E.) Divine Expression F.) Soul Mates G.) Divine Complement

G.) Divine Complement I will start at the bottom and move up to the top, with explaining a divine Divine Complement. A Divine Complement is someone who shows you the exact mirror of where you are living. This person could be anyone at any given time the Higher Self sends to mirror your exact image. Often times it reflects our negative vibrations, while other times you are blessed with seeing the beauty that is you. A complement could come in and out of one's life, or stay around for a while completing many lessons for both parties involved. This would be a very good reason why marriages on Earth shift all the time. People change with age and move on. Many times this does not happen together, and so two partners end up going their separate ways and rightly so in this kind of environment.

F.) Soul Mates A Soul Mate is one who is previously set up before coming into incarnation. Your cycle of life will take many turns, and at the perfect time a Soul Mate will enter to teach you in a strong way about yourself. Many would like to think they are married with a Soul Mate, but truly not as many as would like to be are living this relationship. It is a special meeting, and one that will most likely alter your life. This could be positive or negative, depending on where you stand in Self. Also, a Soul Mate in this lifetime could be different than in another lifetime. There are instances when one travels in several lifetimes together. Your Soul Family is quite large, and for purposes of learning at times you may work or set up a connection with a Soul Mate. Also, a Soul Mate could be the exact gender or opposite, depending on what you came to experience. Oftentimes, a romantic relationship is not in the life plan, because everything at this level is about clearing up with Self. We have spent some lives in dear Soul Mate relationships, while others are meant for the Soul's study and advancement.

E.) Divine Expression A Divine Expression, in short, is one that comes in and makes a large impression on one's life. If one is not moving in the exact direction intended, a Divine Expression would move in to bring out the deepest inner angst and leave you pondering the facts of life. This is good, as the intention of a Divine Expression is exactly that. It will feel not quite pleasant in a lot of instances. But to open a blind eye, Spirit will take on many forms to assist. At this time many beings are experiencing a Divine Expression simply to move them forward. They are actually a gift from your guidance and one to take heed so the truth can face you head on. So many try to make something work that is not in the cards for their enlightenment, and this is where trust comes in. If you feel strong about a being at this time, you will want to consider that your Twin Ray is hanging around, and this is actually what you are feeling.

D.) Twin Mates A Twin Mate is part of a group of beings you are connected to for Earth, Solar and Galactic work. A Twin Mate is someone not usually linked to romantic liaisons, as these souls are a connection of a like-minded unit of servers. All are connected to at least 144 Twin Mates. In the paradigm of creation, the numerical value of 144 makes for the perfection of manifestation, as it works on a higher frequency of energy. In the Galactic Core, all Twin Mates were set up together. Some are here on Earth, and some are in the Galaxy doing other work. When we say we are one and the same it is because units of congregated Light do not separate themselves from one another. We are indeed together, for many reasons, throughout our experiences. This connection will continue until we complete this cycle of creation into the birth of the new Millennium. Here we will advance and the units move and work with different wavelengths of light.

C.) Twin Souls A Twin Soul is a very like vibrational frequency. Each individual has twelve Twin Souls. They are part of the Twin Mate grouping, however these twelve are extremely close to your earthwork. Some of you will be blessed to have a few of these beings close to you on earth. You will feel as if you have known and worked with one another forever, and truly you have. This is likened to the twelve Ascended Masters you will link up to on your climb to the Christ Light.

B.) Twin Flames A Twin Flame is a being you have worked extremely closely with from the Galaxy on down into a third dimensional life form. This was set up long ago and you have kept the same Twin Flames for eons. There are seven Twin Flames you are connected to. Besides the Twin Ray, this will be your closest bond to an entity. Whichever level of light one is at, you will have the ability to reconnect with the Mighty Seven. It will assist to further your own enlightenment. These are integrated before reaching the level of the Twin Ray. Needless to say that many Twin Flame relationships are of great remembrance and love to all. They are also both genders. There is a special bond between Twin Flames, and you will forever be connected at the heart, as one does not ever forget the special love a Twin Flame will share. It moves beyond human sexuality and into the purity of devotion for working together through these cycles. You have been through much, and after the Twin Ray split, the first relationship one enters into is with a Twin Flame. At the level we split, there was not yet time to learn jealousy, we just created and experienced in the love of our Source. We knew there would come a time when reunion would once again join our beloved one's heart forever. Twin Flames usually split up after all lessons are learned -- sometimes taking up to 10,000 years -- to join with each prospective Twin Ray. However some Twin Flames are also Twin Rays. When a person is a BOTH a Twin Flame and a Twin Ray, the constant lessons can be very intense and hard to handle, and taking personal breaks is highly recommended.

A.) Twin Ray The Twin Ray is the ultimate, but it is almost impossible to sustain this relationship from 4D AND 5D. This relationship is overflowing with joy, but is full of tests that are not easy to master below 7D. You and your Twin Ray are the same divine spark (the same soul) that came from the loving embrace of Mother/Father God. Many Ascension factors are tied into the reunification with the Twin Ray. After working to reconnect and taking the time every day and night to complete the energy work necessary, your Twin Ray will start working with you. You work together until you have both have passed the tests that the Universe gives you. It is a very difficult journey, but adds substantial wisdom to you and helps with Soul Growth. All Twin Ray couplings will occur in different ways, from many experiences learned by both parties as twin Flames sometimes then taking their seat as Twin Ray. In addition to ascending, the Twin Ray merge will take a daily conscious effort. Some Twin Rays of earth partners are on a ship, and others are in 7D Agartha, or a nearby planet!!! Some Twin Rays in the upper dimensions are not ready to reconnect. This comes only by the approval of one's Higher Self. So many different situations, yet each one is perfect for the individual. Whichever level you intend to reconnect with, there will be shifts in your life, and Spirit will not give you what you cannot handle. This for the time being is perfect. No Twin Ray will interrupt a harmonious environment. This being only wants the highest and best for youand is willing to wait for Divine time.



You may feel you recognize the person- either from this life or a past life. Some describe it as déjà vu; others experience this recognition as a deep knowing at soul level. This does not necessarily happen instantly. You may have known the person for years. The first physical contact may be the trigger for recognition. Looking into the eyes of your Twin Flame can be REALLY intense, not necessarily because you are looking into the eyes of your true love, but because you are looking into the mirror of your own soul.

Your own intuition may become heightened. You may feel a deep intuitive connection with your Twin Flame. This may or may not involve telepathy but instead you will know your Twin Flame through one or more of the Clair Senses (Clairvoyance, Claircognizance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience). Everyone’s experience is different.

You will not float on a cloud of increased intuitive and telepathic skills all the time. And while physical contact can increase the overall energetic aura the two of you carry together, this doesn’t always happen either. Remember, life happens in the midst of the reunion so don’t go chasing after that feeling.

There may be no magical synchronicities that are obvious. And unless you know to look for mirrored number sequences like 747 or 818, or the numbers 11:11 or 111, you will miss those signs too.

The push-pull, runner-chaser dynamic so often referred to in Twin Flame relationships may not be that at all. It may just be a normal human reaction to a very intense experience. This happens in all kinds of relationships all the time. We tend to run away from confusion. Again, that’s the human condition.

The feeling you have for your Twin Flame will be indescribable. There are simply no words to describe what many refer to as the Twin Flame “love”- which could be more accurately described as a magnetic soul energy that emerges when two people meet and look into the mirror of their own souls.

The reason for the reunion with your Twin Flame is to face your own unresolved issues and reach your soul’s highest potential so that you can shine light into the world. Period. Physical partnering or romance happens when the physical/sexual contact is necessary for you to get to your own core issues. This physical union may or may not be part of the journey.

Sex with your Twin Flame is often very intense but it feels more magnetizing and energizing than what is typically experienced during traditional lovemaking. Twin Flame sex is often the physical body experiencing an astral bonding through the lower Chakra points. Ultimately, the goal should be about moving the relationship out of the lower chakras and into the upper chakras – out of the physical body and into spirit or the astral plane.

The heart chakra lends to bonding on the physical plane so that we can transcend to the astral plane, or 5th dimension. When Twin Flames connect at Heart level, those pitter patter feelings of love can happen because that is how we best express the feeling in our physical bodies. This bonding and connection can also be emotionally and physically painful in ways that you may not have experienced (causing the push-pull dynamic).

Sometimes Twin Flames do become romantic partners or spouses, but this is often not the case. So don’t count on it. In fact, counting on it means you are missing the point of the journey. Twin Flames can be best friends, or even related!

It is true that one or both of you may decide to “run” from the experience. And if that happens it can feel very devastating. Twin Flames WILL reunite, but not necessarily in this lifetime or in physical form. So, if your Twin Flame leaves to take care of earthly business (marriage, career, relocation) don’t go chasing. Let them be and return to your own inner examination.

If you are not ready to continue or to embark on your own soul journey- a journey to the center of you- then meeting your Twin Flame can be excruciating and cause great turmoil. Know that if you have met your Twin Flame, there is work for you to do. You will meet your own Shadow or you will resolve your own ego release. It won’t be all fun and roses. There will be lessons to learn.

Yukia Qwi An Sandara

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